Are you still reintegrating? We are. Not every day is a good one and not every day is a bad one. It's just life.

One of the things I am really trying to do is manage my expectations - of him, of me, of the kids. You get the idea.

But one thing we have done together is complete a Warrior Dash. If you are not familiar with the race, it is 3.1 miles of trail and obstacle fun. We ran together. We negotiated the obstacles together. I fell he helped me up. I tripped on a tree root. He asked me if I was okay and I yelled at him. Hmmmmm. I learned a lot about myself that day and I learned about us that day.

Stay strong, sweet friends. As everyone gets back on a regular schedule, my hope is that you will find some peace in your heart and soul. Remember that everyone gets through this in their own time. Don't compare your relationship to your girlfriend's and her husband. Everyone and every relationship is different.

As I write, my sweet soldier and I are celebrating 11 years of marriage and in that, five combat tours, five changes of station, three kids and countless craziness! Thank you for taking me on this journey with you!

Strength and Courage ... sby