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Busted? Looking for a Job, but Didn’t Tell Your Boss?

If your boss caught you red-handed looking for another job, hopefully it wasn’t because you left your resume on the copy machine or she saw your headline change on LinkedIn.

But if it was one of these or any other misfortune, you’ve got some explaining to do. The best thing to do is to be honest.

“Fess up and tell them that you are looking for a new job. But also, tell them why,” said Abby Kohut, human resource professional and contract recruiter (www.absolutelyabby.com). “If they like you they may try to convince you to stay.”

For example, no one will fault a professional for managing his or her career, which often means checking out the market for potential opportunities or to see how you measure up and where you need development.

Make this an opportunity to discuss your findings and potential next steps at your current company. Elicit the boss’ help and advice on what training you could get, what projects might arise or what vacancies may come up internally and he just may be flattered enough to give it, now that he sees you could leave.

“Or, they may send you packing,” Kohut said.

If the real reason you are looking for work has to do with intense dislike for your current job, your boss or your co-workers, tread lightly. They might feel the same about you and welcome the chance to open the door for you to leave.

But, until you get the next job, take this chance to professionally discuss what you are unhappy about and how it can be fixed so you don’t burn any bridges.

And, from now on, proceed with caution.

“Don’t give permission for potential employers to call your current employer,” Kohut said. “It’s typical. They shouldn’t expect to call them and get you in trouble. There is no explanation needed.”

Being discreet can be tricky but it’s worth it.

“Don’t tell everyone in your network or at work that you are looking (for a job). You never know who you can trust, so keep it confidential for as long as possible,” she said.

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